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She’s the Beauty, and I’m…Okay, I’m the Beast

My girlfriend, Nicole, is gorgeous! Okay, maybe all boyfriends say that of their girlfriends. But what first attracted me to Nicole was her voice. When I hear her sing, a voice of an angel leaves those red lips and my heart skips a beat. At times, I have to pinch myself–maybe I’ve died and gone to heaven? Maybe I’m dreaming. Maybe. But when I look into her brown eyes, I can’t help but feel at peace. My worries and all the stresses of life seem to not matter, as if they’ve evaporated whenever I meet her gaze. Nicole has long brown hair with a tint of red and her hair drops down just below her shoulders. When the sun shines on it, it only enhances her bright smile. Yes, she’s the sunshine that brightens up my day. Nicole is gorgeous! She’s the Beauty, and standing next to her…I’m…okay, I’m the Beast. That’s fine by me.

I just have one problem. Okay, maybe several come to think of it.  First, she hasn’t met me yet. Perhaps, she doesn’t even know I exist. Which leads me to the cold hard truth: she’s not really my girlfriend–I just wish she was. A guy can dream, right? But before you go on thinking she’s some imaginary beauty–she’s not. Nicole is really Britt Nicole, the singer. And I’d like to imagine that I would meet someone like her. Maybe even marry her. Yah, maybe some day.

As more of my friends are getting married at a young age, I can’t help but think of my own prospects. Am I setting my standards to high? Should I settle? Maybe I’m just too darn picky. And as much as I’d like to think that I’m not shallow, I admit that a woman’s beauty reels me in. Yet beauty can be a deception. I’ve met many beautiful girls who turned out to be…how do I put this nicely? Um, some beautiful girls turn out to be the Wicked Witch of the West–deep down they’re horrible. Beauty gets me in, but it’s her personality, her love for others, and her willingness to put others before herself–that’s what would keep me there.

So as I was reading up on one of my favorite blogs, Bakadesuyo (a blog that contains snippets from various research journals that the author of the site found interesting), I came across an entertaining entry. In a way, it’s a “tip” for marriage, but really, it’s a study on the role of physical attractiveness on marriage:

Physical appearance plays a crucial role in shaping new relationships, but does it continue to affect established relationships, such as marriage? In the current study, the authors examined how observer ratings of each spouse’s facial attractiveness and the difference between those ratings were associated with (a) observations of social support behavior and (b) reports of marital satisfaction. In contrast to the robust and almost universally positive effects of levels of attractiveness on new relationships, the only association between levels of attractiveness and the outcomes of these marriages was that attractive husbands were less satisfied. Further, in contrast to the importance of matched attractiveness to new relationships, similarity in attractiveness was unrelated to spouses’ satisfaction and behavior. Instead, the relative difference between partners’ levels of attractiveness appeared to be most important in predicting marital behavior, such that both spouses behaved more positively in relationships in which wives were more attractive than their husbands, but they behaved more negatively in relationships in which husbands were more attractive than their wives. These results highlight the importance of dyadic examinations of the effects of spouses’ qualities on their marriages. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2009 APA, all rights reserved

It makes sense to me. If the guy is the beauty in the relationship, the girl would feel insecure with her beauty. But if the girl is the beauty, it’s a win-win situation for the guy and the girl.

Anyway, I may not have Brad Pitt’s smile or Taylor Lautner’s body or whatever it is and whoever it is that girls find attractive nowadays. According to the article, that may be a good thing. Now, the real challenge is finding a woman who would settle for this Beast.

However, I do think I look way better than Jack Black. Okay…back to working out.

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The Face That Launched A Thousand Hate-Mails

“Was this the face that launched a thousand ships
And burnt the topless towers of Ilium?
Sweet Helen, make me immortal with a kiss.”
– Christopher Marlowe in Doctor Faustus

It was the story that had  historical roots based on an event that occurred between 1194-1184 BC. Legend has it, three goddesses quarreled over who was most beautiful and left this judgment to Paris, prince of Troy. After Hera bribed him with ruling all of Asia and Athena bribed him with fighting skills and the best warriors, Paris ultimately chose Aphrodite. She bribed him with the most beautiful woman on the planet: Helen, queen of Sparta. King Menelaus of Sparta, as possessive as he was, sought for the return of his wife. And thus, the tragic Trojan war began.

Helen returning with Menelaus. Photo Credit: About.com

About three thousand years later, the classic story of two men fighting for the love of one woman–a “trophy” woman–hasn’t changed…that much. Instead, it’s taken more mythical proportions. With the “Twilight” series, a vampire and a werewolf (actually, he was a shape shifter) fought for the love of Bella Swan, the “trophy.” It’s interesting that “Bella” is the Italian word for “beautiful.” But is Bella really that beautiful? I have to be very careful here. I wouldn’t want to get bitten by what I write.

You see, less than a week ago, I took on a perilous journey. I did what not many men have done before: I read the “Twilight” series. My fraternity brothers have asked me to turn in my man card and are prepared to throw me off the cliff of the Hills of Westwood. The women in my life believe that I am incredibly sensitive and courageous for even daring to read the books. And me? I wanted to understand women. I wanted to understand why they love this darn book so much. I didn’t understand why they would cry, why they would scratch, and why they would wait for days when the second movie came out. I’ve never read the books, but like most men, I knew to hate it. It was something that men had to do–had to hate the things of women because if we didn’t, we would be seen as weak. I guess it’s one of those men vs. women thing that we men are taught. Nevertheless, I wanted to understand women, and one way to understand them is by the stories they tell–stories women make for other women.

Yes, I know that Stephanie Meyers targeted this book to young teenage girls. That’s probably why I couldn’t stand the two books. It was so slow, so filled with relationships. So soap opera. So blah! I couldn’t bear reading the first chapter, let alone the entire series. But the last two books had something that men love: blood and guts. Perhaps that’s why I related so much to this half. There was a story of war, of strategy, and of chivalry. There were description about the thrill of the hunt, of working in a pack. These are things that men love, and perhaps this (at least in the perspective of one woman) is what women still desire in men despite feminist attempts. But that’s for a later post on masculinity in “Twilight.”

This post is about Bella Swan, the supposed heroine of the series. I said earlier that I had to be careful when talking about Bella and her beauty. You see, after reading pages after pages of how Edward (the vampire) was beautiful, how he should be a model, how he looked like he was cut from marble, and how he was like a Greek god, and how Jacob (the werewolf/shape shifter) was 6’7″, copper skin, huge, and muscular, I still had no idea what Bella looked like. I didn’t know whether she was a “Helen,” whether she had the “face that launched a thousand ships.” I know, you think I’m shallow, but I’m looking at it through a guy’s perspective. Two guys wouldn’t fight for her if the woman wasn’t beautiful in their eyes. Sorry, it just had to be said, but I compromised by saying “in their eyes.” Beauty is relative, right? Maybe. All I knew of Bella is fair skinned and has brown hair and eyes, that she’s a child of divorced parents, that her birthday is some time in September, and that she’s 5’4″. I later learned there’s a reason for her lack of description. Meyers left the description vague because she wanted it to be easier for girls to insert themselves as Bella.  So if girls are supposed to walk in Bella’s shoes, then perhaps Bella is the heroine of the story, a far cry from damsel in distress, right? Hmm…

The Cullens with Bella. Photo Credit Twilight Review

There have been many articles criticizing Meyers for being anti-feminist by how Meyers writes Bella’s. I’ll admit, Bella seems to enjoy the kitchen, doing all the cooking, the cleaning, the laundry for her town head sheriff father, Charlie. But surely, if she enjoys it, it isn’t a bad thing, right? I can hear the women in my life groan in unison. Come on Gio, we’re heading to 2010, NOT 1910. I think she’s more melodramatic than real-life teenage girls. So should girls really look up to this fictional character or admire what she does?

I’ve gotten a lot of No’s. It seems that many guys and some girls just hate her. Just Google “Reasons to hate Bella” or “I hate Bella” and you’ll see why this post is titled the way it is. And I for one have never wanted to slap a girl until I read about Bella. If she was a real girl, I’d probably slap her a couple times for her own good. If girls like to think they are her, then there’s a lot of girls I need to slap some sense into. I fear for the youth of this world, especially if they start acting out. Here’s my reason:

10. She doesn’t pay any attention to her friends. Being the new kid in school isn’t easy. But here, she’s surrounded by a circle of friends who actually give her the time of day and who actually like her

9. She almost dies several times, but doesn’t. She should just die–as in her character should never have seen the light of day. Okay, I’m not that sadistic. It would be better if she was able to redeem herself. All she does is complain and complain–“woe is me” crap. She puts herself in danger to get some kind of high. Leave that stuff to the daredevils.

8. She’s in love with a killer. Yes, that’s what vampires do…kill. You’re just asking for it. See #6.

7. She’s so selfish. She puts other people’s lives in danger. She doesn’t think about how her relationship affects the people who love her. See #6.

6. She kept a life-threatening secret from her dad. I know, I know, I sound like a parent. Teens keep secrets from their parents all the time. But this is life-threatening. Edward mentioned several times that he could kill her. She’s dating a guy who has the potential to kill her–who wants to kill her because her blood is so appetizing. You shouldn’t keep these kinds of secrets away from your parents. Especially, when the people that are associated with your boyfriend (i.e., all those other blood-thirsty vampires) can kill your parents.

5. She doesn’t have any life goals except just being with Edward. See #3 for more clarification. Your life shouldn’t revolve around another person. Take care of yourself first.

4. She pressures guys to have sex. This was an interesting gender-role reversal to me, and not that I’m applying that it should be guys who pressure girls to have sex. No one should pressure anyone to do anything they don’t want. But let me remind girls the power of saying “No.” If a guy doesn’t want to, quit tempting him. If you expect respect to go both ways, then do so. And, you’re a little too easy–you want it too much. That doesn’t say much about you as a character.

3. She can’t do anything without her Edward. She was depressed over a guy for almost half a year. That’s a good reason to slap some sense into someone. If you are that obsessed over a guy, you have issues. You couldn’t do anything without this guy. This girl is so clingy! You certainly do not find your identity in another guy. You need to know who you are first!

2. She uses guys. Not a big deal, right? Girls use guys all the time. We all know that she used Jacob. Clearly this is a guy who cares a lot about the girl, and all she does is lead him on. Guys hate being led on. Meyers writes it in a way as if it’s okay for girls to do this because Jacob just keeps coming back.

1. She’s so whiny! Come on Bella. You complain about the world so much. As the saying goes, “B*@&$ please!” Your life is not so bad. Even if you complain about being part of a divorced family, you’ve got two parents who love you a lot. That’s more than some people in this world.

Dear Youth of this World,

It’s okay to like the “Twilight” series. Just don’t think the real world should be like that. And certainly do not behave recklessly like Bella Swan. Perhaps that’s the only redeeming value of the character–that she is an example of what NOT to become. Your identity should not rest whole-heartedly on one-person. When that person dies or goes away, then who are you? You are your own person. You need to find your identity first before committing to a relationship.

I am thankful that Kristen Stewart did a tame version of Bella–maybe it’s because Stewart can’t act. I’m not fond of her. However, I’m glad that Stewart’s Bella isn’t as whiny as it is in the book. If she was whiny, I probably would’ve thrown popcorn and soda at the screen.

This public announcement best describes what I feel about Bella and young girls who want to be her.



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Gifts That Keep On Giving

The "I am ____" Definicion shirt. Photo courtesy of Freedom and Fashion

Working with Freedom and Fashion has made me more conscious about what I buy, especially with all the things that are going around in the world. I want to make a difference, and you can too. This Christmas, why not give the gift that keeps on giving?  There are a lot of designers whose products benefit a particular cause. These organizations were also featured on the Freedom and Fashion (FNF) show last month. Read up on all the causes, from human and sex trafficking to clean water for underdeveloped countries to helping those affected by the North Korea crisis.

The summaries were provided courtesy of Freedom and Fashion and can be found in the FNF magazine. I’ve also made some comments on the products. If you know of non-profit organizations you think I’d be interested in, let me know!

Definicion Clothing

Cause: Education for Tibetan Children

Not only is Definicion Clothing comfortable to wear–I get to express myself. I bought one of the “I am _____” shirts and had fun defining myself. – Gio

Definicion seeks to define life with compelling messages and empower others to redefine the world. Each t-shirt is centered on a word or phrase that would inspire a dialogue among the public about the injustices affecting millions in the world. Definicion’s simple, yet powerful t-shirts speak the truth of a hurting world and gives at least 20% of its profits to organizations helping others redefine their lives through efforts such as education, job training and housing. Definicion is about defining life and doing our part.

Punjammies. Photo courtesy of Freedom and Fashion

Punjammies (The International Princess Project)

Cause: Women enslaved in prostitution

All my female friends love it. They say it’s extremely fashionable without taking away from the comfort. Hopefully, they’ll make a men’s line. I’ll be the first to buy it. – Gio

The International Princess Project is a way for women to sustain an income by sewing PUNJAMMIES™, drawstring pajamas made from beautiful sari fabrics that would be sold to consumers in the US. All profits from PUNJAMMIES™ are given back to these women to help provide for their housing, counseling and job training, creating a viable alternative to prostitution. IPP seeks to provide women with the opportunity to live physically, emotionally and spiritually restored lives of freedom and empowerment. “It humbles me to know that our little efforts can literally save lives,” Shannon remarks. “IPP will serve as a voice for those who have none.”

Kauzbots

Cause: Homelessness, Clean Drinking Water, Environment/Trees, Children with Autism, Refugee Relief, HIV/AIDS, Pediatric Care, Oral Health, Breast Cancer, and World Hunger

Kauzbots have quickly become my favorite gift to give by far. The cute 18″ plush bots are one-of-a-kind, with 10% of its retail price being donated to a non-profit organization. Each color is associated with a “kauz.” I bought Kruz, a blue Kauzbot whose kauz is to provide clean drinking water. – Gio

Multi-colored Kauzbots. Photo courtesy of Freedom and Fashion

Introduced at the International Toy Fair in February 2009, Kauzbots have caught the eye of the media and retail stores everywhere and have made their way into the arms of such celebrities such as Lisa Kudrow and Allison Sweeney. Non-profit gurus and former church pastors David Totter and Keith Paige have set out with the direction of John Weeks to put this creative idea into action to show how people of all ages can take tangible next steps to provide much-needed resources to communities everywhere.

KAUZBOTS are currently sold online  and in retail stores throughout the United States.

Dresses from Lalesso. Photo courtesy of Freedom and Fashion

Lalesso

Cause : Poverty in Africa

They have gorgeous bright designs. I’d buy it for my girlfriend. It would be nice to stroll around on the beach or a summer night around town with her wearing one of those dresses. She’ll make me stand out. – Gio

When Joanna Maiden visited Ukunda, a coastal town in Uganda in 2007, she learned of a program that employed local Kenyan tailors by paying a living wage and helping them meet a gap in the market. Joanna saw that the program was in need of the resources and staff to facilitate its growth.  In February 2009, Joanna made the decision to move to Kenya to establish SOKO, a project aiming to create sustainable and creative long-term solutions in Ukunda, Kenya by providing international markets with community driven, ethical and environmentally aware fair trade products.  After being in business for 7 months, SOKO has produced for several international fashion brands such as Lalesso, and seeks to create a sustainable business model that can be replicated in East Africa.

SOKO focuses on aiding men and women in poverty due to the economic downturn by providing training and employment in tailoring, sandal making, and accessories. 70% of SOKO’s profits are used to benefit local projects supporting orphans, disabled youth, schools and rehabilitation centers while 30% is used to expand the business.

Run DMZ (DeMilitarized Zone). Photo courtesy of Freedom and Fashion

LINK (Liberty in North Korea)

Shop LiNK from LiNK Global on Vimeo.

LINK takes North Korean propaganda and puts their own creative spin on it. the Run DMZ shirt is my favorite. It’s strong and stylish, an obvious reference to Run DMC. – Gio

North Korea is a country currently undergoing a devastating human rights and humanitarian crisis. Under the Dictatorship of Kim Jong II, North Korean citizens are virtually denied fundamental freedoms of speech, press, assembly, and worship. Over one million people perished in the mid 1990s famine due to gross government neglect and mismanagement. Citizens are indoctrinated at an early age to worship their dictator and those who are caught “subverting” the Kim regime in anyway are severely tortured or killed. In 2004 Adrian Hong and Paul Kim learned about these horrendous human rights violations occurring in North Korea and felt compelled to share with others what had been hidden away for too long. Adrian and Paul started by educating college students and young leaders about the crisis, and together they formed LiNK with the hope of spreading awareness and affecting real change.

Made in Mongolia bags. Photo courtesy of Freedom and Fashion

MIM (Made in Mongolia)

Cause: Mongolian women and children

MIM doesn’t just have handbags. They have all kinds of products, including pillows, toys, and scarves. I dig the scarves. They’re unique. – Gio

What does a Tibetan Monk and an Irish Designer have in common? Demonstrating how people from all walks of life can make a difference in the lives of others, Made in Mongolia(MIM) was formed through a partnership between the Mongolian organization Asral NGO, led by Tibetan monk Panchen Otrul Rinpoche, and Irish Designer, Pat McCarthy. Asral NGO started out as organization dedicated to keeping families together and preventing children from ending up on the streets. In the Autumn of 2009, Made In Mongolia(MIM) introduced fair trade crafts as a crucial endeavor to helping support women sustainable futures for Mongolian women in Asral NGO’s social welfare projects.

Handbag by Malia Designs. Photo credit: Malia Designs

Malia Designs

Cause: Human trafficking in Southeast Asia

I’m not a big jewelry fan (I love my class ring though), but they have all kinds of designs you can buy for your wife, girlfriend, sister, or even your mom. However, they do have some options for men. – Gio

Lia and Maria both independently witnessed first hand the horrors of human trafficking in Southeast Asia. Despite international recognition of these crimes and the government’s efforts to prosecute perpetrators,  Lia and Maria realized how pervasive the problem of sex tourism was Vietnam and Cambodia.  Being two socially-conscious entrepreneurial women, Lia and Maria formed Malia Designs as a way to combat human trafficking by providing a means for women to secure income and produce development in their communities.

Malia Deigns promotes handbags made by non-profit organizations that employ impoverished women in developing countries as well as small family producers across international borders. By exposing their craft to Western markets, Malia Designs help victims of human trafficking by donating portions of their profits to local and international non-profits in order to provide a larger amount of sustainable income for families in these regions.


Necklace by NightLight. Photocredit: NightLight

NightLight

Cause: Trafficked women and children in Thailand

It’s a great organization doing great things for women. Support them! – Gio

After ministering to women prostitutes in Thailand for 5 years, Annie Diselberg had the vision to start NightLight as an economic alternative for women and children trapped in the sex industry. With a team of 5 others that came alongside her, this vision became a reality in the Winter of 2005 when Nightlight became an officially registered Thai jewelry company. Women who had originally felt no hope for freedom from their circumstances could now learn how to make earrings, necklaces and bracelets and feel proud of their craft.

Shoes by Not For Sale Campaign. Photo credit: Not For Sale Campaign

Not For Sale

Cause: Human Trafficking

They have products for men and women. And the fact that it’s called “Not For Sale,” really gets people thinking. And when you realize that they’re talking about human beings–well, that stirs something deep down in a person’s soul. – Gio

The “Not for Sale Campaign” was launched by University of San Francisco Ethics Professor David Batstone. After becoming a firm advocate and expert on human trafficking, Professor Batstone decided to get his students involved in mapping slavery in San Francisco, the 12th largest human trafficking hub in the world. This daunting task sent students looking for ads of massage parlors in newspapers and magazines to discover possible human trafficking sites. Students spent months on watch investigating and observing these sites to see how many women would enter and leave during the course of a 24 hour day. Students had reason to believe that human trafficking was occurring when women who had confirmed to be working were not seen leaving to go home at night. Some students would walk into shops posing as customers looking to find women to entertain their bachelor party in a hotel next door. Students were shocked by their finding and recorded them on a slavery map using open for public to access and use over the internet. As word of these investigations spread, advocates all over the country became empowered to began their own investigations in cities across the country. Slavery maps began to spread and soon today there are over 140 confirmed human trafficking sites recorded across the nation.


Tag Bag. Photo credit: Tag Bag

Tag Bag

Cause: Residents of Kayamandi, South Africa

They are one-of-a-kind bags. No two license plates are exactly the same. They’re unique and if you are traveling around at night…well, I think it’s a safe bag to carry because it illuminates when you are crossing the street. – Gio

Tag Bags are handbags made from recycled South African license plates, which supports a global initiative to reduce carbon footprints. There are 8 different bags, all named in honor of a woman in the township of Kayamandi who is making a difference in her community. Tag Bags create jobs for members of impoverished communities and tells the stories of real people with real needs. With a growing market in the US, the expansion of Tags Bags overseas allows for increasing employment opportunities for the residents of Kayamandi suffering from poor living conditions. Tag Bag has been featured in Beverly Hills Lifestyle magazine and as well as on a series of websites including BagBunch.com and PurseBlog.com.


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Freedom and Fashion and everything in between

It’s been about three weeks since my last real post. Busy body. It’s been about four days since I got to see all my hours of hard work come in fruition in the form of the Freedom and Fashion show. Post busy body. However, I’ve got to say that the fashion show against human and sex trafficking and the exploitation of women, as well as other important social justice causes–the fashion show was a huge success. I think we got the message across to people in a clear, yet creative way.

One of my friends wondered why we use fashion as the medium because the fashion industry tends to exploit women. Women are told to dress a certain way, to be a certain image, to be a certain size–isn’t it ironic? Well, dear friend, isn’t that the point? We want to reclaim the fashion industry, to bring into light the injustices it has done to women, and more importantly, to change the way we perceive fashion. Think of it–fashion CAN be fair-trade, and it CAN go to a good cause, and it CAN still be fashionable. Social justice is in, and apathy is out. When we forget that–perhaps that’s when we forget our identities as compassionate human beings.

UCLA’s Ackerman Grand Ballroom was packed. Every seat was filled, and after walking the VIPs and donors to their seats, I had to stand back a bit, look at the catwalk, and stood amazed that the day had finally come. Once everyone got to their seats, the hosts introduced rapper Jason Medeiros, where he performed two songs. One of the songs, “Constance,” is based on the true story of a Filipina girl who was sold into the sex trade industry. Then, the fashion show started. As soon as the song started playing, my heart skipped a bit. This is it! This is it! I remember thinking to myself. To make a long story short, I’ll let the pictures and video speak for itself. The pictures were taken by my friend, Kenny Gulley, during dress rehearsal (although it’s not everything featured on the actual fashion show) while the footage of the fashion show was taken by Freedom and Fashion crew and is streamed on Livestream.

If you are interested about social justice issues, check out Freedom and Fashion.

Check out some of the clothes featured on the fashion show (or at least on the photos below), by such clothing lines as Definicion Clothing, LiNk (Liberty in North Korea), Lalesso, Tagbag.

Lalesso Clothing

Lalesso Clothing

Lalesso Clothing

Lalesso Clothing

LiNK Clothing

LiNk Clothing

Freedom and Fashion Line

Definicion Clothing

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My Experience With Two Women

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Photo Credit: Artchive

For most people, Labor Day is spent on the road, whether it’s traveling to Lake Havasu  or San Diego, or driving down to the mall to shop with that great holiday savings. My family is definitely not an exception. We had quite a day spending breakfast together at McDonalds, leaving flowers on my sister’s grave, and driving all the way down to Ontario Mills Outlet store to do some mild shopping (I ended up buying NOTHING!) Then, my mom said she had a surprise for me. She wanted to set me up with two different women. And I, being absolutely horrified of mom playing matchmaker, reluctantly said “Yes.”

We ended up driving all the way to Alhambra. So I was quite surprised that we pulled up to the Renaissance Theater driveway. Walking slowly to the ticket counter, my mom bought some tickets. So I said, “Where are they?” My mom looked at my dad, then back at me. Then, she let out a huge laugh, and said with an Indonesian accent “Surprise!” as she pulled out three tickets. I was dumbfounded–I didn’t understant what she was trying to surprise me with. Then, I looked closer to the tickets and it turned out she bought three tickets to “Julie and Julia.” The two women she wanted me to meet was the movie she had always wanted to watch as a family. If this isn’t an FML moment, I don’t know what is anymore.

So I sat there in the theater disappointed that I was tricked and outsmarted by my mom into watching this chick flick, but relieved at the same time that she hadn’t set me up on a blind date (as some Asian moms tend to do). But as I continued watching the movie, I laughed more than I thought I would. Sure, it’s no “I Love You Man,” and it didn’t have jokes that most guys love (crude homor, violence, etc.) but to see the lives of these two women from two different time periods played out, I couldn’t help but be amazed that it was all based on a true story. Although Megan Fox wasn’t in it,  at least it does have one thing guys love: all the delicious food scenes–after all, it’s the way to man’s heart.

The movie did well portraying the different eras through the costumes and the technology that was present at the time. Take for example, carbon copy and the typewriter back in the 1950s. I am so glad for the copier and the computer and Microsoft Word! And better yet, I no longer had to explain what blogging is to my mother. She now understands what I do! But I definitely recommend this movie to everyone! I think you can also appreciate the challenges that both couples go through to keep a marriage together. It’s very anti-Disney story-book love! Real marriage takes lots of work!

Now Julie (the main character who’s based from a real life persona that wrote the book that the movie is made from) has given me a new passion for writing and blogging. As I continue to write about societial issues being revealed, I’d like to write a little bit more about my identity–perhaps more about my identity as someone trying to lose weight, gain muscle, and look leaner and meaner. You may think that’s a bit self-centered of me, and I have to admit, it may actually be. But I’d like to write about my transformation and my quest of getting back my high school abs. I know others can relate. And just like the main character approaching 30, at my current age of 23, I’m getting a whole lot older and those abs may never come when I hit 30 at this rate. So perhaps others would encourage me along this journey. I don’t know. But that’s what an adventurous journey is, isn’t it? The thrill of not knowing?

I now know for sure that my mom is quite tricky, and quite clever. Perhaps that’s where I got all that from.

Photo Credit: Artchive

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